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Tonishackz πŸ¦β€πŸ”₯

Owner/Creator/Counselor, Shackz Family Emotional Support
How to say my name Toni β€” rhymes with "homey" or "pony," but way more real. Just TO-nee β€” that's me! Β· She/Her I'm Toni β€” just me, and that's enough. Use whatever feels right to you; respect is what matters most πŸ’› Β· Rustenburg South Africa

I AM TONI. I'm just me. I'm not perfect. I'm me. I've made bad decisions and wrong choices. I've said the wrong things… and sometimes the exact right ones to the right people I've loved the wrong people, trusted the wrong people, and gotten my heart bruised along the way. I don't love every moment I've lived through β€” some still sting - and yes left scars both physical and emotionally β€” but I own them all. Because that is who I am.. If I could start over from the beginning… I wouldn't change a single thing. Why? Because every step, every scar, every detour, every closed door has shaped me exactly into who I am today β€” resilient, wiser, empathy, and proud of myself for how far I gave come yet I am ready for what's ahead. Though I didn't always understand why things didn't work out as I hoped, I've come to see that every experience β€” even the painful ones β€” was preparing me. Doors closed. I had to find others. Hearts were tested. Despair sometimes whispered that I am not Good Enough. But I've learned to believe in myself even when others don't that I am deserving of everything I worked for. My journey has had setbacks, heartbreak, moments that felt like I just can't go on. Yet each one has become a stepping stone toward my true path. Believing in love after being broken is hard β€” but with every experience, my capacity to love (and to love myself) has only grown stronger. I no longer dwell on past pains. Instead, I choose the lessons they taught me, the growth they forced, and the quiet strength they built inside me. I've learned to accept that some questions may never have answers β€” and that's okay. What matters is that I'm moving forward, stronger, wiser, and more myself than ever. Meant to be: "once felt like a distant fairy tale. Now I believe that when the time is right, whatever is meant for me, it will find me. Until then, I am committed to loving myself fiercely, cherishing this life, and seeking the light in every day β€” even when darkness tries to linger. I've said goodbye to the bridges that burned behind me. They no longer serve my journey. With each step forward, I embrace new beginnings, knowing the best is yet to come. Life goes on β€” and I have the choice to move with it or stay stuck. I choose to move forward: open eyes, open heart, ready for whatever the future holds. Rain or shine, I choose happiness on my terms, in my way, for myself. And when struggles arrive β€” I will welcome it fully, with a heart that knows its the lesson will be worth. Because I am worthy of all the good things life has to offer. Flawed. Real. Growing. Healing. Unapologetically β€” I am ME. Perfect in our Imperfection No Judgement No Labeling cause I am #Toni